Saturday 26 December 2009

Merry Xmas Everyone

so 2009 is gone, isn't it fast? Last Xmas, Lai was desperate searching for accommodation for his new job, he travelled to London, used only one day for house hunting before he hurried back to China to visit his parents. It looks like yesterday, times really flies...

Looking back, not much achievement this year. Workwise, some progress, but a lot need to improve, gonna hunt for a new jobs after new year. Gymwise, tiny progress, bench and squat still same, very disappointing, deadlift up 20kg. gonna push harder next year.

Still no boyfriend, do not know whether he exists in this world or not. However, Lai did meet some nice people, both online and offline, hopefully next year Lai will have more gay friends.

Aussie invited Lai for his Xmas party, however, Lai is very unorganised person, he mixed up the date in his schedule, so he missed it! You can imagine how disappointed Aussie was. Lai and Aussie become quite good friends now, but it kinda feel weird, you would not shag your good friend, will you?


A married couple invited Lai to visit them on New year. And another old friend of Lai asked him to do some charity work, Lai agreed. Even though Lai can not understand why people become homeless in this country. As he always tell his British friends, in China, even you do not have hands, no legs, you still have to work! people do not complain about it, you need to support yourself. Lai do not know why these young healthy men can not take care of themselves, maybe they just need to be slapped and sent to some poorest area in the earth for a while, then they will not take things for granted.

Lai signed up for one week night shift in the center, as his friends told him they are really short of volunteers in the night. Lai has to travel one and half hour to there, and start work from 10pm to 9am every night. To his surprise, although some guests there do seems abusive or having mental problem, many of them are very polite and can hold some decent conversation...

Lai has not never drunk so much coffee in his life, normally he seldom drink coffee, but in order keep himself awake, in the first night he drunk at least 8 cups of strong black coffee, and he only managed less than 2 hours sleep once he back home, then go back to the center to start another shift...

By day 3, Lai is exhausted, he really admire some other members who has worked there for years, he even met an old lady who drove from Yorkshire to London during Xmas to help these homeless people. Lai think, our lacking of sleep may exchange one week nice warm sleep for these poor people, esp in this time of year, maybe it does worth.

It is a fun job, you can meet all kinds people, both guest and volunteers... But Lai was thinking, "can i just have one night break? i already have running nose and headache now..." However, he still insists..

so how was your Xmas? Hope you had a nice and happy one!

Thursday 10 December 2009

Hustler

Recent a few weeks, Lai got big headache from a hustler, if he could describe the guy this way. Back two months ago, Lai got msg from him on a website. He looks like pretty decent guy. On his profile, there is no face pic, only a naked man lying facing towards the wall, a perfect muscle back and bubble arse fully exposed. "mmm, very nice " Lai think...


They tried to set a date for meet, but the first time Lai was too busy, then this guy was in France to take care of his business. So they exchanged some msg occasionally flirting. At first, he behaved like a normal guy, soon Lai got some more picture from him. Although Lai did not like his face, but he has to admit, this guy got a very nice body, and seems to be a very eager bottom, which made Lai quite excited. Lai did notice something different from the backgrounds of those pictures, the guy seems come from very wealthy family, and this was soon proved by their conversation later. However, Lai is normally quite put off by people boasting their richness, esp, it is just for a casual shag. Soon, Lai noticed something strange. During the a few weeks this guy was in France, he texted Lai every night, began with flirting, then .. his full address, his drink list...Normally, ppl will not do this.

To be polite, Lai answered a few first, then he got msg, such as "Are you watching TV now? On BBC2, there is a documentary about xxxx, he is my friend, just live down the street, do you want to....." After a few "ok", "cool", Lai really lost interests to answer.

However, things getting worse day by day, he began to text and call Lai more frequently. Even after Lai decided to ingore him. Every day, at least 10 txts from him, many even at 3am in the moring.. and the content starts as "want to fuck me now?" changed to "come on", then some incomplete meaningless words. Lai thought most guys will get the idea after a few days if you do not respond him. However, this guy keep doing this for nearly two months now, every day, every morning..

Lai has a bad habit, he always forgetting his mobile at home, thus he has to check his mobile once he back home after work. Many of his friends had complained about this. But this time, this bad habit helped Lai a lot. He set his mobile in vibration mode, and try to forget it.

Now Lai seriously think to delete his profile on that site and change his mobile number ...