As mentioned in last post, when gay men want sex, they normally want it immediately, if you responded the following day, normally they would ignore you. However, Lai like to make appointment first. He noticed these also cause a lot of problems. E.g. Last week, he has 6 guys lined up for sex. He knows some of them will not be bothered at the appointed time, as people do not give a damn about the sex date which they set online one week ago. But when things really happened, Lai does feel a little down. As normally if he is the one travelling, he always make the effort to keep his words.
E.g. A handsome muscle American guy msg Lai a few times, they soon set the date. But he did not show up and not respond to Lai's msg any more, no idea he is already back to US or whatever reason. "what a shame" thinking about that beautiful butt he missed, Lai is a little sad.
A tall muscle bottom was also very keen to meet, they flirted a lot and he want to come immediately, but Lai set a date next week. However, when the guy found out he has to travel one hour on the tube, he can not be bothered, at least he told Lai for advance.
At least some of his sex date shown up. One cute hairy British guy is actually very polite, he apologized for being late for 3 minutes. Once they sit down, Lai noticed there is another problem for this kinda casual sex. Generally Lai is a shy guy, even when he is the one who accommodate, he found it is awkward to jump straight to bed. Thus he normally prefer to chat with the guy for a while. However, once the chat is started, it goes on and on, it is just strange to change the topic back and get undressed. Gay Banker once mentioned he normally take his top off within 5 minutes once entering the room. This is a practical suggestion,but Lai just feel difficult to do it.
The British guy is a very good kisser, he sucked Lai' tongue so hard, will not let it go. He got very nice cheeky smile and hairy body, at little bit too hairy for Lai's taste. So in the middle of fucking, Lai lost his hard on. The guy is very cooperative, he change to every possible position try to get Lai's attention. They watched some porn and then Lai finished him in doggy, and shot on his back.
Another problem of this kinda casual sex is, you never know what kinda guy you will get. He might not look like his picture, then you may sent him straight home. But even he looks like his picture, once things start, there are something will bother you. E.g. Another guy Lai met, on his profile, he is very handsome, dressed as kinda CEO type. But once he showed up, Lai notice he is very shy, as he said he normally did not do casual sex. What turned Lai off is, the guy smoke, when they kissing, yuck, Lai has to avoid it.
A very good looking tall Polish guy msg Lai at night. They chatted on msn for a while, he let Lai watch him on cam. This is a very handsome hunky guy, like a male model, no wonder he sounds very cocky. His English is not good, even worse than Lai. But they can communicate well. The guy thought Lai is bottom at first, keep showing off his 9 inch dick. However Lai is not interested at all. Somehow Lai manage to talk him into the mood. Finally he said "I seldom bottom. But if you come now, you can fuck me". As it is already 11pm, although they live quite close, Lai refused. "How about Sunday ?" They set the time, but Lai did not know whether he will show up or not.
E.g. A handsome muscle American guy msg Lai a few times, they soon set the date. But he did not show up and not respond to Lai's msg any more, no idea he is already back to US or whatever reason. "what a shame" thinking about that beautiful butt he missed, Lai is a little sad.
A tall muscle bottom was also very keen to meet, they flirted a lot and he want to come immediately, but Lai set a date next week. However, when the guy found out he has to travel one hour on the tube, he can not be bothered, at least he told Lai for advance.
At least some of his sex date shown up. One cute hairy British guy is actually very polite, he apologized for being late for 3 minutes. Once they sit down, Lai noticed there is another problem for this kinda casual sex. Generally Lai is a shy guy, even when he is the one who accommodate, he found it is awkward to jump straight to bed. Thus he normally prefer to chat with the guy for a while. However, once the chat is started, it goes on and on, it is just strange to change the topic back and get undressed. Gay Banker once mentioned he normally take his top off within 5 minutes once entering the room. This is a practical suggestion,but Lai just feel difficult to do it.
The British guy is a very good kisser, he sucked Lai' tongue so hard, will not let it go. He got very nice cheeky smile and hairy body, at little bit too hairy for Lai's taste. So in the middle of fucking, Lai lost his hard on. The guy is very cooperative, he change to every possible position try to get Lai's attention. They watched some porn and then Lai finished him in doggy, and shot on his back.
Another problem of this kinda casual sex is, you never know what kinda guy you will get. He might not look like his picture, then you may sent him straight home. But even he looks like his picture, once things start, there are something will bother you. E.g. Another guy Lai met, on his profile, he is very handsome, dressed as kinda CEO type. But once he showed up, Lai notice he is very shy, as he said he normally did not do casual sex. What turned Lai off is, the guy smoke, when they kissing, yuck, Lai has to avoid it.
A very good looking tall Polish guy msg Lai at night. They chatted on msn for a while, he let Lai watch him on cam. This is a very handsome hunky guy, like a male model, no wonder he sounds very cocky. His English is not good, even worse than Lai. But they can communicate well. The guy thought Lai is bottom at first, keep showing off his 9 inch dick. However Lai is not interested at all. Somehow Lai manage to talk him into the mood. Finally he said "I seldom bottom. But if you come now, you can fuck me". As it is already 11pm, although they live quite close, Lai refused. "How about Sunday ?" They set the time, but Lai did not know whether he will show up or not.
Well Lai, it is interesting to read about your problems with casual sex, but the pic of the guy you posted is smashing! Please, if you could, tell me what the characters tatooed on his abs translate to English.
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Ever hard Cannuck.
It is not very nice word to be honest, many western people have Chinese tatoo did it before they even understand what does it means. For this guy, the tatoo bascially destroied a beautiful body
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